When I feel indecisive or unclear about something in my life it is usually because I have spread myself too thin or let things get out of control. Being scattered mentally and physically overwhelms me and that is when I have to stop and regroup.
Sometimes it is as simple as clearing off my desk or shutting off the phone that helps me regain some sense of order and harmony. The noise of the world can be deafening and I need the quiet serenity that allows me to hear that voice inside. That is the time when I can ask myself what I really want and need to do. The answer always comes easily and gently and I can see clearly again.