Sometimes it’s the smallest thing that can make the biggest difference. I've been reading a lot about the "Law of Attraction" and how in the universe there are 2 aspects to everything, wanted and not wanted.
The concept is to focus on more of what you do want to have in your experience and less on what you do not. It can be very difficult to remember to think this way because most of us were taught the opposite.
But if I want peace, joy and love in my life then that is what I must give my attention to. When I can do that, I see how beautifully it unfolds and becomes better than I ever could have imagined.