I really liked the analogy from "Ask it is Given" where they talk about making a pie. You look at all the ingredients in your kitchen and then decide what you want to use. You are not intimidated by the wide variety of choices because you know nothing will end up in your pie that you don't put there.
It is the same with life - of all the possibilities in all of the world you get to decide what you want to include in your experience. You don't have to deny or push against anything - you simply don't bring it into your life. You only select those things that make you happy and bring you joy.
There is no right or wrong - we all get to decide what we want in our pie!